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THE WROST SITE OF ALL. The idiot who devised a multiple question site to find the love of your life is one smart cookie because you all bought into it. PULEASEEEEEE are you kidding me! If there ever was a sham this is it. This guy put up questions we learned in college for psych questions. It's a real idiot's version of dating. Match.com at least has real profiles, less control of what you say and do and real people. My son met someone on Match.com and after 3 years together they recently married. I have know many who have. E-Harmony on the other hand has one or two commercials which want you to believe they are real but again, reach deep inside and test your intuitive skills. THIS IS A SHAM. Don't spend your money on this site. I am sure we will eventually read that it was shut down due to false advertising.
ReplyDeleteI have joined eharmony twice. The detailed questionaire that helps 'us find compatibility on the deeper level'--this is not true for all. In my experience, I found that those who were matched to me were not even close to what I had in mind. The process is tedious and expensive for all the work one does to activate their profile. I would not reccommend this site.
ReplyDeleteGeez people. I have some complaints too, but overall I met some great people and had fun dating, and have recommended the site to my friends. This is a really one-sided rant here, with a lot of people who are too easily bruised, or are coming in a little naive. Yes a lot of profiles are inactive, yes they are kind of crabby about payments, but overall it's a good service where you can meet some great people. (Yes and some freaks too. Just be safe, the same as you would with someone you met in real life.)
ReplyDeleteI have been on E-harmony for 6 months and have not had a single compatible match...NOT ONE! First, most of the "matches" were significantly older than me (turns out E-harmony can do a +/- range of age unless you say X age only). Second, many were at too great a distance to continue. Then, I found that my profile was free advertising for E-harmony. During Free weekend communications, my matches went up. Many tried to communicate outside the E-harmony site (e.g. gave an e-mail or telephone number). These matches never went anywhere and although they wanted my picture, they never followed up with one of them....TOO ugly? Finally, I knew my E-harmony subscription was winding down and I fully expected to receive a reminder e-mail from E-Harmony that the subscription was coming to an end, but instead, I received a notification on the end day stating that my account was being renewed automatically (it was in the fine print of the terms and conditions that your subscription would automatically renew) and if I didn't want auto renewal, I could have gone into the account setting and drill down under several tabs to find the place that I could have turned off the auto-renew. I didn't and when I called to cancel the subscription on the day I received the auto-renal notification (credit card already charged), I was told that I just bought another 6-months and there was nothing they could do about it as per their terms and conditions. Interesting, they would "close my account" for "Other" as a reason but still wanted my profile up. After a bit of complaint on my part, they did agree to take down my profile and also to refund me 1/2 of the 6-month subscription!!! So, I am paying for a service I am no longer using. Beware the automatic renewal feature in the fine print. I think they should have to have an agreement "click" on such terms and that a reminder e-mail should be sent in advance of the auto-renewal....but of course that would not benefit E-Harmony. So, after 6-months of bad matches and even worst communications that went no where, I am out 1/2 a 6 month subscription for NOTHING and they still wanted to keep my profile, I guess to entice new subscribers. What a scam....don't be fooled and be careful out there!
ReplyDeleteWhen I cancelled subscription I was bombarded with "matches". Up until then they sent maybe one or two a month and the matches were old and one was in a wheelchair. I ride a harley and stated that very clearly that i have to have a fellow that rides. What the heck is the poor guy in the wheelchair gonna do with me? I am getting so sick of this "on line" dating thing...i am going back to reality and try to meet the old fashioned way..hehe.
ReplyDeleteOne more comment that relates to BIKERKISS..now that is a serious joke!!! I could rant on that crapola all day (but i will spare ya due to this about e-harmony complaints)
ReplyDeleteBeware! I met a man on eharmony from Waterloo Ontario and dated him for two and one half years. We married a month ago. Three weeks later there was a voice mail on my work account from another woman who told me the man I had just married was living a double life. I have since discovered he lived a life of lies and has mental health issues-and I had no clues until the other woman telephoned me. Eharmony is the perfect place for stalkers and con men. BE CAREFUL!!
ReplyDeletethat happened to me also,there is a woman on eharmony named Melissa Warner,she asked me for money right off the bat,she gave me good conversation and the wham,needed money for a phone card,I think she is a nigerian scam artist...so beware..
ReplyDeleteJoined EH. A man on the site emailed me enthusiastically and turns out I have seen him around the same haunts that I frequent. My point being, he is a real person and not a fake profile set up.
ReplyDeleteFinally went out after he was really convincing that we had so much in common and wanted to thank EH for finding the perfect woman for him. We shared a load of activities and looked good on paper.
I was supposed to go out with the guy on a Friday and he told me when he was going to call. He called 4 hours earlier but left no message. He never called. I texted him and expressed that I was disappointed and wished him luck. Suddenly he started to blow up my phone with TMS saying he had called many hours earlier but I never answered. Um. Yeah I was working and though I did call back he was unavailable and did not answer his phone. He claims his phone showed no missed calls.
The next day he apologized via text ad nauseum and I agreed to see him for coffee. We went out and I am not sure but on the way to get coffee, I think he farted in the car. Either that or he stepped in dog shit. I thought I was going to vomit.
We had a great outing despite his fart and though he was not someone I would be instantly attracted to, I felt I should give him a chance since he seemed well versed in the are of how to talk to a woman. I did ponder if he had taken some classes on how to say and what to say as it sounded like some of those how to relate to women classes.
I mentioned I wanted to try a specific restaurant and he became excited stating we should go to it together soon.
He kissed me goodnight and I had to pull away because the fart was replaced by a happy banana in his trousers and it kind of squicked me out. There is always time for that.
He texted me all this crap the next two days saying how this one (ONE) small kiss got him "CRANKED" up. Nice.
He invited me over and wanted to cook for me. I was thinking this was really nice. I had just finished talking to him on the phone. It rang again within 5 minutes and it was he asking me where I was. I replied, "What do you mean? I just told you where I was. Where are you?" He said "I am where I said I would meet you." I clearly did not get what the hell he was talking about. He said he mistakenly dialed me instead of his (GUY) friend to which I asked if his guy friend had a woman's voice. He went on this long convoluted twisted story of how he thought I was his guy friends wife and it was the same thing as talking to his friend.
Later I sent him a TM saying Dude. Were you on a date and called me instead? He went on to fabricate this long drawn out story that sounded good but I wasnt sure.
He texted me later and I didnt answer most of them. He finally texted that he had lied and was going on a date and understood if I didnt want to see him again. I told him he was a slob not because of a date but because he lied and had us lined up like cattle.
He told me how he wanted to DP me with another guy within hours of knowing him. Sick twisted fantasies and I am all about being open but this guy is a sexual predator
I find it annoying that you need to subscribe to look at other people's profiles. Okcupid.com doesn't doesn't, so why make people pay to find a match?
ReplyDeleteI agree and and just so we all know most of these sites are nothing but escort services legalized by stating this is a dating line. I know I didnt make any money for dating and I think I will just find a real person Do not every use zoosk or Are you interested either someone off that site keeps trying to use my credit card morons.
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